If you want to spend the money, id suggest going on ebay and buying the service manual for your car. It will have a trans removal guide along with a guide for anything else you might need to do to the car in the future. Have you ever pulled a transmission before? More specifically, a front-wheel drive?
I've never done a passat before and I think you may have to remove the sub-frame to get the trans out, but don't quote me on that. If that is the case though, just a warning that its gonna be a pretty tough deal if you arent using a hoist to raise the car up in the air, which im guessing you arent. But again, I'm not sure if you will have to do that or not so dont let me scare you just yet.
I can give a general step by step process that may help you to remove things in the right order, but you would have to locate everything yourself. Which engine does the car have?