Start doing the things you like.
That leaves you with 2 outcomes.
Worst Case: You do things you like.
Best Case: You do things you like, and meet someone who likes doing those same things.
Yeah, so basicly I know exactly the boat you are coming from.
I basically got to the point where I said F*ck it, and just started focusing on all the other crap going on in my life, school, work, work, if I had free time I was at the shooting ranges with my buddies and so forth. I am not much of a nightlife person, I dont mind grabbing drinks at bars with my buddies but im not going clubbing and im not looking to "meet" someone at a bar.
That all being said tho me and this girl I use to work with basically fell for each other hard... not sure how it happened either, I wasnt looking to date her tho shes cute as hell and she wasnt looking for a boyfriend at the time either... but yeah... **** happens when your not looking for it
I say do what the guys said already.
Go out, have fun and do things you like... You will be having fun and being worry free and thats what most girls like
And I'm there with you. I like cars, accounting and the gym. Not much going on there in terms of females. I've had to put myself out of my comfort zone to meet new people.
To reply to the "how to meet girls" conversation, it helps to "do what you enjoy" but it nearly always needs to be a social, unisex activity.
You won't meet girls playing WOW in the dark.
You likely won't meet girls doing manly activities like hunting or the like.
Whoever mentioned kickball... that's a fantastic extra-curricular!
NEVER neglect a potential friend because theyre not hot... even ugly dudes may have hot female friends
Shortly after that me and this girl started grabbing lunch together and then out of no where it turned into something great.
Also I do other things besides going shooting too but my point is just to do what makes you happy... If thats shooting at the range with friends sure... women prospects there arnt the greatest haha or join a club, build a home for the needy lol Just pursue what will bring a smile to your face and it will happen.
If what you love doing is a social activity, where men and women participate, than yes. If it's an activity you do alone, or only with other men, than it won't. Unless you're looking for a guy. Than sure.
but to you. I wish there were cute single girls at my work
Last edited by PolskiHetzen; 08-05-2011 at 03:43 PM.
Although in my case it's happened with such frequency that I'm beginning to think that they're using it as a cop-out excuse. I'm onto your scheming ways ladies