Start doing the things you like.
That leaves you with 2 outcomes.
Worst Case: You do things you like.
Best Case: You do things you like, and meet someone who likes doing those same things.
Yeah, so basicly I know exactly the boat you are coming from.
I basically got to the point where I said F*ck it, and just started focusing on all the other crap going on in my life, school, work, work, if I had free time I was at the shooting ranges with my buddies and so forth. I am not much of a nightlife person, I dont mind grabbing drinks at bars with my buddies but im not going clubbing and im not looking to "meet" someone at a bar.
That all being said tho me and this girl I use to work with basically fell for each other hard... not sure how it happened either, I wasnt looking to date her tho shes cute as hell and she wasnt looking for a boyfriend at the time either... but yeah... **** happens when your not looking for it
I say do what the guys said already.
Go out, have fun and do things you like... You will be having fun and being worry free and thats what most girls like
And I'm there with you. I like cars, accounting and the gym. Not much going on there in terms of females. I've had to put myself out of my comfort zone to meet new people.