The Official Singles Thread

[Woodski]

sup

[Rob Cote]

Their friends are ****in clownshoes. She totally wanted me to stay, but it was her friends house and she said no. bitch-ass bitch.

[mellbergVWfan]

Their friends are ****in clownshoes. She totally wanted me to stay, but it was her friends house and she said no. bitch-ass bitch.

They must not like you. Or are jelly you like her.

[Son]

Woot, happily single again! The complete lack of initiative of the girl I was loosely seeing was bothering me so much I couldn't continue in it even for the sexy time.

[Rob Cote]

They must not like you. Or are jelly you like her.

She jelly. She likes me, although she says she hates me. She's pretty immature like that.

[OSD#15]

Your right. If he diddles my son he will diddle for the last time.

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Once your son is "diddled" it won't matter if he "diddles" again, nor will it matter if he's dead or in jail. The only person who will truly suffer is your son. Do the right thing... lawyer up and get your son as far away from that pedo before its too late. Good luck man, I couldn't imagine having to be in that situation!

[Rob Cote]

I don't get why I'm so hung up on this one. We haven't gotten really any time to chill alone yet. But she's real laid back. And cute as hell. I just keep waiting.

[1.8tizzle]

I don't get why I'm so hung up on this one. We haven't gotten really any time to chill alone yet. But she's real laid back. And cute as hell. I just keep waiting.

This why.

[1.8tizzle]

Mother****er. So the girl who was so excited to go out and get dinner and drinks was out with another dude tonight. Called her out. **** that sh*t. Onto the next! Met a new chick tonight anyways. B***hes.

[22AudiQ]

Invited that girl to Cars and Coffee Thursday.
Never heard back.
Cars and Coffee was yesterday morning.
Saw her posting stuff on Facebook, so I know she must've seen my message.

I'm not really mad because, quite frankly, if she's ****ty enough to not have the decency to even write back and say as much as "You're weird. Go away," I don't want anything to do with her.

I was pretty up front about wanting to get to know her and hang out, so why not be an adult and either reject or accept an invitation?

There's this girl that I've crushed on a little (cute Lebanese girl) through college who lives in Florida now. I'm going down to visit my parents in Fort Myers in two weeks and am considering seeing if she'd want to catch up and do dinner or something. Meh. We'll see.

[Rob Cote]

3 am. You wanna crash at my place which is right down the street? No I'm just gonna drive a half hour home. See ya.

[Deezy]

Hard to sleep. Wake up at 4 am. Day by day! It gets a little easier.

[MonteCristo5]

Looking to stay single as long as I can

[Rob Cote]

Looking to stay single as long as I can

X2

[VW-Pssst]

Invited that girl to Cars and Coffee Thursday.
Never heard back.
Cars and Coffee was yesterday morning.
Saw her posting stuff on Facebook, so I know she must've seen my message.

I'm not really mad because, quite frankly, if she's ****ty enough to not have the decency to even write back and say as much as "You're weird. Go away," I don't want anything to do with her.

I was pretty up front about wanting to get to know her and hang out, so why not be an adult and either reject or accept an invitation?

Time to give up on that one... if shes ignored/denied the first few times, she's probably not even going to acknowledge it... If she wanted to go. You would know.

However that kind of crap peeves me... doesnt respond to a text, but will post on facebook via mobile like 20 min later. Like thats cool thanks haha

[22AudiQ]

Time to give up on that one... if shes ignored/denied the first few times, she's probably not even going to acknowledge it... If she wanted to go. You would know.

However that kind of crap peeves me... doesnt respond to a text, but will post on facebook via mobile like 20 min later. Like thats cool thanks haha

Oh, agreed 100%. Already made my mind up about that. Just glad I didn't invest much time or energy into it.

I think it's time I stop dating girls and start dating women.

[Northren vr6]

Just live your life.. do what you want, where you want, when you want, and eventually you will bump into someone worth the effort. I never go out with the intentions of meeting someone that I want to get involved with; meaning, it's never in the forefront of my mind, or my main goal, and yet I still meet plenty of quality females. I know a lot of guys who still have that mindset though.. all they want is to meet girls and that's always the #1 priority. To me, that isn't fun.. it's like you're on a mission instead of just having a good time. Your mind should be open and ready for all experiences, not narrow and clouded.

I did not arrive at this position out of futility or cynicism. I'm happy with who I am, where I am in life, the people I surround myself with, and the activities I participate in. I feel pretty fulfilled most of the time without someone constantly at my side. Hang out with your friends in comfortable situations, interact with people around you, meet as many new people (male and female) as you can in a pressure free environment (and stay in touch with them.. say hello when you bump into them next time, and the time after that.. that's how you make new friends as an adult), have fun, and let the good times roll. Trust me, when the good times are rolling towards you, the ladies roll too.. can't fight gravity yo.

tldr; when you're out and about, having fun and being generally social, you will meet women even when it is not your primary goal. It works better than being a narrow minded creeper, and you'll have a much better time along the way.

Dood you got it right.

[Ubel GLI]

Back to the plant tomorrow. Keep seeing hot girl, she says hey, I lost my voice the last couple days so I couldn't talk but now I can so I will do it for OT!

[evosky]

3 am. You wanna crash at my place which is right down the street? No I'm just gonna drive a half hour home. See ya.

that's what i did. only it was 5am in my case. i should have stayed over at hers

[PolskiHetzen]

Oh, agreed 100%. Already made my mind up about that. Just glad I didn't invest much time or energy into it.

I think it's time I stop dating girls and start dating women.

She responded the first time, and told you no, just using more words. You shouldn't have asked again. Were you REALLY expecting a different answer? If she wanted to hang out with you, she would have let you know. Whatever her reasons, you asked, and she didn't say "yes".

I'm not sure why you're surprised she didn't respond.

[PolskiHetzen]

Mother****er. So the girl who was so excited to go out and get dinner and drinks was out with another dude tonight. Called her out. **** that sh*t. Onto the next! Met a new chick tonight anyways. B***hes.

Is this your g/f?

If no, then you have no reason to call her out on it or even care. You're now the "jealous creep who follows her around and then gets mad when you're not even exclusive."

[rpmk4]

PolskiHetzen layin down the law!

[Rob Cote]

you have no reason to call her out on it or even care.

Exactly.

I'm giving a try with keeping a real open line of communications with one of these. The one I keep getting all hot and bothered about. I told her straight up that I find it annoying when she cancels plans and that I'm getting mixed signals, I don't know what she wants and that. She was very receptive and just said she doesn't want to screw up, which she's prone to (??). I said not to worry about it because I've no real expectations.

We'll see what happens. I talked a lot of **** about the stupid level of her friends when we were out. She didn't bother trying to argue with me about it either, which was great. Actually agreed on a few points that were made. I just can't hang with them anymore, but the main one has left the state and is several hours away, so I'm hopeful she can find time to chill perhaps even one-on-one soon. I like her.

[1.8tizzle]

Is this your g/f?

If no, then you have no reason to call her out on it or even care. You're now the "jealous creep who follows her around and then gets mad when you're not even exclusive."

No, but we have already had some quality time together, and she wanted to spend some more, shoot, she's even slept over. And she had text me literally like an hour before I saw that, so yeah, made me mad a little. I was also stupid drunk. Blah.

[PolskiHetzen]

No, but we have already had some quality time together, and she wanted to spend some more, shoot, she's even slept over. And she had text me literally like an hour before I saw that, so yeah, made me mad a little. I was also stupid drunk. Blah.

If it was past a certain point, where it was implied you wouldn't get with other people, then still don't get mad and call her out on it. Don't show it got to you. Go out and start getting with other girls. Don't be up front about it, but if she asks don't hide it. The fact that she'll be losing you/your attention to other girls will eat her up more then anything you can ever say to her if you want to go that way. Or just keep doing her, cross her off the potential g/f list, and keep dating around.

[evosky]

do girls like seeing that you are not exclusively going after them? like, do they enjoy that jealousy bit? serious question.

[PolskiHetzen]

do girls like seeing that you are not exclusively going after them? like, do they enjoy that jealousy bit? serious question.

I think they want what they can't have. Or they want to feel they won. If you're dating a lot of girls, then she thinks you must be cool or there must be something about you. Plus, if you're dating 2-3 girls at once, it makes you not give a f-ck about one girl, and that alone is attractive to them. Don't be upfront about it, and try to rub it in their face, but don't hide it. You might have to be ready for her to try the same thing on you, but just don't care or react to it imo.

Also, her asking you to be exclusive, not the other way around. Or making her say I love you first. Makes them feel like they accomplished something by winning you over.

[1.8tizzle]

If it was past a certain point, where it was implied you wouldn't get with other people, then still don't get mad and call her out on it. Don't show it got to you. Go out and start getting with other girls. Don't be up front about it, but if she asks don't hide it. The fact that she'll be losing you/your attention to other girls will eat her up more then anything you can ever say to her if you want to go that way. Or just keep doing her, cross her off the potential g/f list, and keep dating around.

I can agree with that. I had sent her that text (out of drunken stupidity) when I saw it happen, so I admit that was definitely a mistake. But I met another girl that night anyways, and cotinued to enjoy the rest of my night with her, and the other definitely saw.

And your second part to that makes sense, because she text me yesterday apoligizing and saying how should would still really like to go back out with me and that she's not interested in or seeing anyone. So... should I do it? Truth be told I like the girl; her personality is cool and shes's pretty damn cute.

I just don't wanna get sucked into the situation again.

[VikingVR6GTI]

I can agree with that. I had sent her that text (out of drunken stupidity) when I saw it happen, so that I admit was definitely a mistake. But I met another girl that night anyways, and cotinued to enjoy the rest of my night with her, and the other definitely saw.

And your second part to that makes sense, because she text me yesterday apoligizing and saying how should would still really like to go back out with me. So... should I do it? Truth be told I like the girl; her personality is cool and shes's pretty damn cute.

I just don't wanna get sucked into the situation again.

What situation?

She didn't do anything wrong. Had you guys talked about being exclusive, then yeah, you had a right to be pissed. But you hadn't. If you really like the girl, then go out with her again and have "the talk" if things seem to be continuing along the right path.

[1.8tizzle]

What situation?

She didn't do anything wrong. Had you guys talked about being exclusive, then yeah, you had a right to be pissed. But you hadn't. If you really like the girl, then go out with her again and have "the talk" if things seem to be continuing along the right path.

Not that she had done anything WRONG, just felt like being led on a bit. (based on the convos we have had previously).

[evosky]

I think they want what they can't have. Or they want to feel they won. If you're dating a lot of girls, then she thinks you must be cool or there must be something about you. Plus, if you're dating 2-3 girls at once, it makes you not give a f-ck about one girl, and that alone is attractive to them. Don't be upfront about it, and try to rub it in their face, but don't hide it. You might have to be ready for her to try the same thing on you, but just don't care or react to it imo.

Also, her asking you to be exclusive, not the other way around. Or making her say I love you first. Makes them feel like they accomplished something by winning you over.

thanks for that insight I've been DIW for the past 25 years. need to step up the heat on some other potentials and see what happens.

[cockerpunk]

I think they want what they can't have. Or they want to feel they won. If you're dating a lot of girls, then she thinks you must be cool or there must be something about you. Plus, if you're dating 2-3 girls at once, it makes you not give a f-ck about one girl, and that alone is attractive to them. Don't be upfront about it, and try to rub it in their face, but don't hide it. You might have to be ready for her to try the same thing on you, but just don't care or react to it imo.

Also, her asking you to be exclusive, not the other way around. Or making her say I love you first. Makes them feel like they accomplished something by winning you over.

wisdom.

one girl im dating was stacking dudes up 2 dates a night for a while. now she isn't, which i take a a pretty serious signal she wants to be exclusive. i however, have not stopped dating other girls, or started covering up that i am. to sent that signal right back at her.

[Rob Cote]

I'm down to just two and I feel I really need to add more to my arsenal. I get uncomfortable with the exclusivity, even though I really dig 'em. I've been so busy lately, though, that I haven't really gone out much. Meh I'm still having a great time.

[rpmk4]

started dropping hints this weekend to a girl i have a crush on that im into her. pretty sure she thinks i'm joking

[Deezy]

Out of the blue an ex from 7 yrs ago messages me on a dating site. We get to texting and stuff... but I remembered we talked for a year and dated for 2 weeks and she left me for her ex. So.... yea I think we will just be friends.

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