It's actually been a lot easier .
I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.
Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .
The major thing is kids and the sex .
I dont want either from her lol
Along with that the religion , where she is starting to do more research and finding out how much of a cult the. JW religion is and how much flat out bulll**** and lies its based on.
these are big things.
we have a kid on the way and (for the most part ) i want to have sex with my wife. but if a week goes by without, i start getting pissed.
can't imagine being with someone for years and never wanting to have sex with someone at all. going without and cheating are just not viable options.
I need to follow this... "Not everything you eat has to, or should, taste really f*cking awesome. Sometimes you need to eat 'boring' food to stay healthy.
And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.
This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.
We are both taking this next month to write down what we want in life.
Especial due to previous mind washing due to the JW religion.
When your taught that if you do the right thing you will live for ever your willing to put up with certain things in life since the person your with is pretty cool.
Once that thought process is removed and you realize you only have 40 years or so left your process changes to WTF !
Also how many of you date and married only one other person?
How long of you only dated for 6 months before you were married ?
I don't expect anyone here to understand what's going on at all since you were not born into a horrendous mind washing cult that the JW religion is .
Last edited by Chilledman; 03-14-2012 at 06:15 PM.
After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.
Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .
I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !
And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .
Last edited by Chilledman; 03-15-2012 at 12:21 AM.