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      03-03-2012 12:00 AM #142
      Well still eating the wife's popcorn .

      What you think you need to do and what reality is , is sometimes never the same thing .

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      03-03-2012 01:06 AM #143
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      Well still eating the wife's popcorn .
      Is that Chlledman speak for something?

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      03-03-2012 10:32 AM #144
      Quote Originally Posted by titleist1976 View Post
      Is that Chlledman speak for something?
      yep , you have to figure out what I mean !

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      03-04-2012 10:45 AM #145
      I want my clicks and advice back.

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      03-04-2012 01:00 PM #146
      You know you're still waiting for the pics!

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      03-04-2012 08:33 PM #147
      Quote Originally Posted by titleist1976 View Post
      You know you're still waiting for the pics!
      I will get one or two of them when shes at the gym this week.

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      03-07-2012 10:39 AM #148
      Check healthandfitness .......... For pic

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      03-08-2012 11:03 PM #149
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      Check healthandfitness .......... For pic
      She looks like a very nice, girl next door. Didn't you say she was almost 6 feet tall?
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      03-09-2012 09:27 AM #150
      I left !
      Day 1 is kicking ass !

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      03-09-2012 07:41 PM #151
      Quote Originally Posted by Egilbe View Post
      She looks like a very nice, girl next door. Didn't you say she was almost 6 feet tall?
      5'10 and some extra since shes all but eye level with me and I am c hair off 6'

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      03-09-2012 07:57 PM #152
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      I left !
      Day 1 is kicking ass !
      Congrads?

      Hope it works out for you both in the long run

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      03-12-2012 01:17 PM #153
      It's actually been a lot easier .
      I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

      Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

      The major thing is kids and the sex .
      I dont want either from her lol

      Along with that the religion , where she is starting to do more research and finding out how much of a cult the. JW religion is and how much flat out bulll**** and lies its based on.

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      03-12-2012 02:34 PM #154
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      The major thing is kids and the sex .
      I dont want either from her lol
      sounds like you should don't need to be married to her anymore then.

      these are big things.
      we have a kid on the way and (for the most part ) i want to have sex with my wife. but if a week goes by without, i start getting pissed.

      can't imagine being with someone for years and never wanting to have sex with someone at all. going without and cheating are just not viable options.
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      03-12-2012 02:56 PM #155
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      The major thing is kids and the sex .
      I dont want either from her lol
      Dude, I think we all got it figured out by now. You probably don't even know it yet, but we're pretty sure you're gay. And there's nothing wrong with that. The VWVortex community still loves you.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      I left !
      Day 1 is kicking ass !


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      03-12-2012 04:30 PM #157
      Quote Originally Posted by joness0154 View Post
      Lmao nah moved in with a friend had a party Saturday night and OMG ...
      If I wasn't still tech married .....

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      03-12-2012 04:31 PM #158
      Quote Originally Posted by addicted2vw View Post
      Dude, I think we all got it figured out by now. You probably don't even know it yet, but we're pretty sure you're gay. And there's nothing wrong with that. The VWVortex community still loves you.
      LOL that I am sure is not true.

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      03-12-2012 10:03 PM #159
      Quote Originally Posted by Papa Dras View Post
      So, in the end, it comes down to nothing but Chilledman needing to sow some oats. It sounds like she is actually a pretty kick ass wife and you just aren't attracted to her. That is a huge thing, but I'd think it over and make sure you aren't just in a phase before you go and screw it up. Every guy I know that is married gets into phases where they just aren't into their wives and are into everything else that walks. It's normal. What isn't normal is walking out on a marriage for it.

      Make sure you aren't just thinking with your dick, because it rarely ever ends up like you think.
      Agree 100%. And I always say - the grass is never greener.

      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      It's actually been a lot easier .
      I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

      Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

      The major thing is kids and the sex .
      I dont want either from her lol

      Along with that the religion , where she is starting to do more research and finding out how much of a cult the. JW religion is and how much flat out bulll**** and lies its based on.
      I think you probably need to just chill out for a second before rushing into things. Maybe she will change her mind about religion?

      And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

      This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.

      Quote Originally Posted by dunhamjr View Post
      we have a kid on the way and (for the most part ) i want to have sex with my wife. but if a week goes by without, i start getting pissed
      Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.

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      03-12-2012 10:43 PM #160
      Quote Originally Posted by firefighterjunkie View Post
      Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.
      hopefully i will be too tired to be angry.
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      03-13-2012 07:01 AM #161
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

      Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

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      03-13-2012 07:04 AM #162
      Quote Originally Posted by firefighterjunkie View Post
      This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.
      That's pretty much what he's said.

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      03-13-2012 12:41 PM #163
      Quote Originally Posted by firefighterjunkie View Post

      And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

      This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.
      Wait, you didn't realize we were talking to his dick all along?


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      03-13-2012 03:29 PM #164
      Well, I couldn't exactly tell through all of his bullchit excuses about religion, kids, sex, 'no interest' and travel. But now I see...

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      03-14-2012 06:08 PM #165
      Quote Originally Posted by firefighterjunkie View Post
      Agree 100%. And I always say - the grass is never greener.



      I think you probably need to just chill out for a second before rushing into things. Maybe she will change her mind about religion?

      And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

      This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.



      Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.
      We are not 100% over at all.
      We are both taking this next month to write down what we want in life.

      Especial due to previous mind washing due to the JW religion.

      When your taught that if you do the right thing you will live for ever your willing to put up with certain things in life since the person your with is pretty cool.

      Once that thought process is removed and you realize you only have 40 years or so left your process changes to WTF !

      Also how many of you date and married only one other person?
      How long of you only dated for 6 months before you were married ?

      I don't expect anyone here to understand what's going on at all since you were not born into a horrendous mind washing cult that the JW religion is .
      Last edited by Chilledman; 03-14-2012 at 06:15 PM.

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      03-14-2012 08:06 PM #166
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      We are both taking this next month to write down what we want in life.
      Chilledman writing things about life. Maybe just ask if you guys can talk about it instead.

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      03-14-2012 08:55 PM #167
      Lol ass !

      We text and do talk every other night.

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      03-15-2012 12:18 AM #168
      After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

      Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

      I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

      And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .
      Last edited by Chilledman; 03-15-2012 at 12:21 AM.

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      03-15-2012 10:04 AM #169
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

      Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

      I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

      And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .
      At least you realize that this is not going to be an easy process, any approach.

    30. 03-15-2012 11:22 AM #170
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      After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.
      Ever stare in the mirror?

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      03-15-2012 08:33 PM #171
      Quote Originally Posted by Chilledman View Post
      After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

      Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

      I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

      And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .
      Believe it or not, she's right. You are being selfish. She'll get over it eventually and move on with her life and find someone who appreciates her while you're still making it rain in strip clubs. Maybe you'll be happier, maybe you won't. Someday, you'll look back and think what an idiot you were/are and then, you'll understand. Until then, learn your life lessons and good luck
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      03-16-2012 09:54 AM #172
      Quote Originally Posted by joness0154 View Post
      Ever stare in the mirror?
      Always .

      Simple fact is you have one life to live and its beyond belief that I am being selfish since I want to be happy

      Yeah sure let me live my life making her happy all the while I am annoyed and pissed off and unhappy with the desicion

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      03-16-2012 03:04 PM #173
      Quote Originally Posted by Egilbe View Post
      Believe it or not, she's right. You are being selfish. She'll get over it eventually and move on with her life and find someone who appreciates her while you're still making it rain in strip clubs. Maybe you'll be happier, maybe you won't. Someday, you'll look back and think what an idiot you were/are and then, you'll understand. Until then, learn your life lessons and good luck
      Agreed

      Chances are, he will go out and bang bunch of girls > learn lesson > marry another girl > she will leave him just like he just left his wife.

      Karma is a bitch

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      03-17-2012 12:26 AM #174
      Quote Originally Posted by VdubChaos View Post
      Agreed

      Chances are, he will go out and bang bunch of girls > learn lesson > marry another girl > she will leave him just like he just left his wife.

      Karma is a bitch
      Sounds like an awesome plan to me !!!

      Also I believe in karma as much as I believe in god ...... Both are just as foolish as the other

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      03-21-2012 01:58 PM #175
      look, we don't really give a shiit about your dick problems. Just post the pics of your wife.

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