Seperation / Divorce

[FlashRedGLS1.8T]

[Chilledman]

Well still eating the wife's popcorn .

What you think you need to do and what reality is , is sometimes never the same thing .

[titleist1976]

Well still eating the wife's popcorn .

Is that Chlledman speak for something?

[Chilledman]

Is that Chlledman speak for something?

yep , you have to figure out what I mean !

[Papa Dras]

I want my clicks and advice back.

[titleist1976]

You know you're still waiting for the pics!

[Chilledman]

You know you're still waiting for the pics!

I will get one or two of them when shes at the gym this week.

[Chilledman]

Check healthandfitness .......... For pic

[Egilbe]

Check healthandfitness .......... For pic

She looks like a very nice, girl next door. Didn't you say she was almost 6 feet tall?

[Chilledman]

I left !
Day 1 is kicking ass !

[Chilledman]

She looks like a very nice, girl next door. Didn't you say she was almost 6 feet tall?

5'10 and some extra since shes all but eye level with me and I am c hair off 6'

[GTiTOM]

I left !
Day 1 is kicking ass !

Congrads?

Hope it works out for you both in the long run

[Chilledman]

It's actually been a lot easier .
I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

The major thing is kids and the sex .
I dont want either from her lol

Along with that the religion , where she is starting to do more research and finding out how much of a cult the. JW religion is and how much flat out bulll**** and lies its based on.

[dunhamjr]

The major thing is kids and the sex .
I dont want either from her lol

sounds like you should don't need to be married to her anymore then.

these are big things.
we have a kid on the way and (for the most part ) i want to have sex with my wife. but if a week goes by without, i start getting pissed.

can't imagine being with someone for years and never wanting to have sex with someone at all. going without and cheating are just not viable options.

[addicted2vw]

The major thing is kids and the sex .
I dont want either from her lol

Dude, I think we all got it figured out by now. You probably don't even know it yet, but we're pretty sure you're gay. And there's nothing wrong with that. The VWVortex community still loves you.

[joness0154]

I left !
Day 1 is kicking ass !

[Chilledman]

Lmao nah moved in with a friend had a party Saturday night and OMG ...
If I wasn't still tech married .....

[Chilledman]

Dude, I think we all got it figured out by now. You probably don't even know it yet, but we're pretty sure you're gay. And there's nothing wrong with that. The VWVortex community still loves you.

LOL that I am sure is not true.

[firefighterjunkie]

So, in the end, it comes down to nothing but Chilledman needing to sow some oats. It sounds like she is actually a pretty kick ass wife and you just aren't attracted to her. That is a huge thing, but I'd think it over and make sure you aren't just in a phase before you go and screw it up. Every guy I know that is married gets into phases where they just aren't into their wives and are into everything else that walks. It's normal. What isn't normal is walking out on a marriage for it.

Make sure you aren't just thinking with your dick, because it rarely ever ends up like you think.

Agree 100%. And I always say - the grass is never greener.

It's actually been a lot easier .
I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

The major thing is kids and the sex .
I dont want either from her lol

Along with that the religion , where she is starting to do more research and finding out how much of a cult the. JW religion is and how much flat out bulll**** and lies its based on.

I think you probably need to just chill out for a second before rushing into things. Maybe she will change her mind about religion?

And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.

we have a kid on the way and (for the most part ) i want to have sex with my wife. but if a week goes by without, i start getting pissed

Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.

[dunhamjr]

Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.

hopefully i will be too tired to be angry.

[FlashRedGLS1.8T]

I think she agrees with me on that we need to take this time to make sure what we want in life not who we want.

Just to make sure we don't resent our life's in 10-15-20 years .

[FlashRedGLS1.8T]

This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.

That's pretty much what he's said.

[VdubChaos]

And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.

Wait, you didn't realize we were talking to his dick all along?

[firefighterjunkie]

Well, I couldn't exactly tell through all of his bullchit excuses about religion, kids, sex, 'no interest' and travel. But now I see...

[Chilledman]

Agree 100%. And I always say - the grass is never greener.



I think you probably need to just chill out for a second before rushing into things. Maybe she will change her mind about religion?

And I don't get how you can go from being married for 10 years and enjoying sex with someone for 10 years to having ZERO interest, at all. That makes no sense to me. You even said she looks better now than she ever has.

This whole thing sounds like you are just dying to sleep with someone new.



Oh just wait until the baby comes...prepare yourself.

We are not 100% over at all.
We are both taking this next month to write down what we want in life.

Especial due to previous mind washing due to the JW religion.

When your taught that if you do the right thing you will live for ever your willing to put up with certain things in life since the person your with is pretty cool.

Once that thought process is removed and you realize you only have 40 years or so left your process changes to WTF !

Also how many of you date and married only one other person?
How long of you only dated for 6 months before you were married ?

I don't expect anyone here to understand what's going on at all since you were not born into a horrendous mind washing cult that the JW religion is .

[Papa Dras]

We are both taking this next month to write down what we want in life.

Chilledman writing things about life. Maybe just ask if you guys can talk about it instead.

[Chilledman]

Lol ass !

We text and do talk every other night.

[Chilledman]

After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .

[FlashRedGLS1.8T]

After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .

At least you realize that this is not going to be an easy process, any approach.

[joness0154]

After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

Ever stare in the mirror?

[Egilbe]

After talking tonight there is no way I sticking with this self Richeous *******.

Everything is always my fault and she is never at fault .

I should be lucky to be with her and then 30 sec later she has no one and no one to talk to WTF !

And she acts like I left to hurt her , yeah dumbass this is so ****ing easy .

Believe it or not, she's right. You are being selfish. She'll get over it eventually and move on with her life and find someone who appreciates her while you're still making it rain in strip clubs. Maybe you'll be happier, maybe you won't. Someday, you'll look back and think what an idiot you were/are and then, you'll understand. Until then, learn your life lessons and good luck

[Chilledman]

Ever stare in the mirror?

Always .

Simple fact is you have one life to live and its beyond belief that I am being selfish since I want to be happy

Yeah sure let me live my life making her happy all the while I am annoyed and pissed off and unhappy with the desicion

[VdubChaos]

Believe it or not, she's right. You are being selfish. She'll get over it eventually and move on with her life and find someone who appreciates her while you're still making it rain in strip clubs. Maybe you'll be happier, maybe you won't. Someday, you'll look back and think what an idiot you were/are and then, you'll understand. Until then, learn your life lessons and good luck

Agreed

Chances are, he will go out and bang bunch of girls > learn lesson > marry another girl > she will leave him just like he just left his wife.

Karma is a bitch

[Chilledman]

Agreed

Chances are, he will go out and bang bunch of girls > learn lesson > marry another girl > she will leave him just like he just left his wife.

Karma is a bitch

Sounds like an awesome plan to me !!!

Also I believe in karma as much as I believe in god ...... Both are just as foolish as the other

[VdubChaos]

look, we don't really give a shiit about your dick problems. Just post the pics of your wife.