I'm 21 yo and been with my girlfriend for almost 4yrs now. Started dating in high school. After reading this whole thread, i'm happy to say ill never get married. Seems like once your married you stop trying to make each other happy.
To Chilledman, (i know my opinion dog poo as stated above) seems like you have 2 problems.
1. You and your wife don't have the same goals in life (she wants kids and religion, you want neither).
2. Doesn't seem like you are physically attracted to your wife.
First one could be fixed, however second would be pretty tough. So if you can't love your wife for who she is inside you better move on.
(again i don't know squat so best to ignore this)
and to all the "adults" i know i'm an ignorant "kid"
IMO, 25-27 is when you could legitimately start contemplating it and actually have a fighting chance. Again- IMO.
2. Once you loose it you never get it back , she is actually in the best shape of her life now and I have 0 interest in ever banging her again.
What annoys the fck out me now with her , is she acts like it was the greatest marriage int he world where in fact it has sucked dick for so long she doesn't realize it.
She can keep waiting and being a pathetic idiot , I am done dealing with her , family and the psychopathic cult shes apart of , I personally dont care any more and at the end of summer , I am getting my own bank account and she can fend for her self like the rest of those tards.
Jehovahs Witness have to be some of the sketchiest backstabing *******s known .
This may have been stated earlier but have you ever asked her if she is willing to fallow you were your change is taking you. Ask her to trust you in fallowing a different path. No one grows apart unless they let it happen and you maybe surprised that she could also have the same feelings towards the religion thing and feels like she also wants out but dosent know how because of feeling of abandoning her family. What ever you do dont be quick to run, stand by your woman even if you cant stand her. Exhaust all your options in this marriage before you take the easy road. Your age of when you married is only a copout that your hanging on to. Its great that you have been together this long and you did not miss out on anything but gained a whole lot from the experience you had with your wife and you dont just want to throw away all that do you. Start looking at the positives of your wife and you life and you will start to change you perspective. Dont fallow what society is telling you it will only lead you to what you see on television and thats not real.
good luck and i hope you could read all that my typing is pretty bad also.......
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Good bye and thanx for all the fish!