My setup is similar, a few things you can check that I've experienced:
-Ensure the bolts on your wastegate actuator rod haven't backed off (common problem)
-Test diverter valve + check for slightly torn hoses in the vacuum system (I've had a forge 007p with a bad rubber seal in the past, would bleed off boost, but was still able to hold pressure)
-Turbo to manifold gasket could be going (This caused lag and loss of boost for me in the past)
-Replace MAF (this worked for me, I had no leaks at all and regained 4 psi from a new MAF)
Those are good places to start. Pop off a charge pipe close to your front mount and see if there's any oil clogged in there. (unlikely, but you never know)


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Part numbers matched right up with the donor car too. I keep looking at all my hoses and see no physical defects. what is this 44k stuff? i'm assuming fuel injector cleaner? if so, i ran some pretty potent stuff called 4-power about 2 months back. the throttle body should be clean, because when i took off the intake manifold to paint it, i cleaned the hell out of the TB. that was about a year ago. Maybe a small exhaust leak? I cant hear on at all! I was planning on upgrading the ko3s to a ko4-001. I guess it's time now! maybe swapping the wastegate, changing the gaskets, etc will fix the problem!
