I was in the same boat as you. I decided to go with the H&R cup kit. It claims to have a level 1.5 inch drop all the way around. I am having them put on this weekend so I will post some before after pics if you would like. I chose this setup b/c I had koni yellows on my MKIV and don't need to go crazy low now, just something that looks a little better and wont bounce my kid all around when they are in the car with me. But the cup kit and a rear sway bar should do you just fine!
Also if I am not happy with the drop I can get the other set of springs that lower it even more.