check the jetta 4 forums, they might know.
imho, its ugly, and i wouldnt get it. however, its your car, and you do what you please
the Mk4 forums told you to go to the classifieds. you refuse, as you want new.
go to the dealer. i hear they have some stock parts for VWs.
also, check out ECS tuning. They MAY have a section for volkswagen. I guess you wont know until you get there.
if i see this thread in one more forum, im going to spam bomb the **** out of it.