So wait, 1st is where reverse should be and 3rd is where 5th should be?
If the bolts are tight (that should be tight) it should be one end or the other, not spread out like that. Check the top of the transmission and make sure the side to side bolt isn't loose or broken. There is a black plastic piece that the adjustment bolt threads into, make sure that isn't broken (they commonly break after age).
Also check the shifter underneath the leather boot. There is a bolt that faces forward towards the dash, make sure that is tight. start there, then report back.