I forgot to thank some of the people who helped us in finding the gear:
Alex at Europrice for the brakes. These are going to be amazing.
Mike at MCPi for the DEFCONs, DV and control arms.
DieselGeek crew for the Panzer Plate and Timing Belt kit
ECS was great, too, although did not work with anyone in particular.
And thanks to everyone on this forum - the reason I got to Alex and DieselGeek and Mike is because of the info gleaned from all of you on this forum. For my A4 I have generally been happy with AZ, but I prefer this forum for its focus on the MKI.