OP is a troll
he doesn't even have kids but comes to the parenting forum to tell us how to raise our kids, LOL
he's more passive aggressive than most females
sorry OP but children are everywhere, and they don't always act perfect (news flash)
I take great care to make sure my 4 and 8 y.o. act civilized whilst in public/in restaurants, but sometimes kids fuss & cry, that's life, deal with it. and get over yourself. you sound like a whiney baby yourself
and until you have kids, don't tell others how to parent!!!!