Wife and I have been together for 14 years, married 10, and have a 2 1/2 year old son. We've been going to marriage counseling for probably close to two years (and two different counselors), and I don't really feel like we're making much, if any, progress. She also suffers from anxiety and depression, which I feel is the biggest hurdle (she is on meds)
I'm curious what the success rate is for couples in counseling, how long you saw a counselor, how long you've been married etc. I'm not trying to say that I'm perfect in our marriage or anything like that, but I feel that I get a lot of blame for **** that she makes up in her head (and the counselor has agreed in the past), and I'm trying to decide when enough is enough.